I can not believe our little baby is finally here! Despite the challenges of life with a newborn, I could not be happier. Javier and I are absolutely love struck by this little guy! He was born at 3:39am on Friday, October 12th after almost 13 hours of labor after I had to be induced.
The three days before Liam arrived I started to really go downhill physically - my face began to swell on top of the swelling I already had in my hands and feet and I noticed my weight spiked out of no where despite no change in my diet. What got me to call the doctor was that I had a headache for 3 days, and that combined with all my other symptoms made me think I had preeclampsia, which was confirmed when I went into the doctor's office Thursday morning. The doctor came in after my labs were done and said "Well, you just earned yourself a trip to the hospital and you're not leaving without your baby!" I couldn't believe it! I had to go straight from the doctor's office to the hospital and I began the most amazing experience of my life.
A little before 3pm the induction process began with a foley bulb and an IV of pitocin. Contractions started right away but they weren't bad at all for a long while. After some walking and trying to get things going, the contractions really picked up. I did a
whole bunch of reading during my pregnancy on everything pregnancy/baby related, and it seemed that all the research showed that pitocin contractions are more painful than natural contractions because they are forced. So, I decided that I wanted to get an epidural, as my contractions were picking up very quickly, and I got that around 10pm. Honestly, I felt that my labor was going so well, and it wasn't as hard as I expected it to be. Then, my epidural stopped working when I was in the transition phase of labor (most painful) and THAT was difficult, but Javier, my nurse and my midwife did an amazing job of helping me through it, and after an hour I got another round of pain medication and it was time to push! It only took about an hour and a half, which is supposed to be pretty good for a first time mom, and it didn't seem nearly that long. Then Liam made his quiet appearance, which really scared us because usually babies come out screaming, but he was perfect! He just sat there, and made a few little baby noises and had his eyes wide open studying this new world that he just entered. It was all incredible, it's hard to believe it was all real sometimes! It was a very positive birth experience, much better than I expected it to be, and Javi was there with me the whole time helping me through it and being such a great coach :)
Now we are home with our little newborn Liam! He really is a great baby. Most of the time he is very calm. He loves to cuddle - luckily he will go in his swing or bouncer if he is asleep, because in the hospital he wouldn't sleep unless he was being held! Every once in a while the poor little guy gets in a fussy mood and cries for a while but he calms down when his dad sings and walks with him :) Javi is such a great dad! It seems to be coming all very naturally to him even though he has never had much baby experience, you would think he was a pro! Liam had a little bit of trouble breastfeeding but luckily everything has been resolved and he has gained 4oz! He is already getting so big!
All in all, life is going so well and we are so happy, and despite the sleep deprivation and a few bumps in the road everything has been great! I will do my best to update on Liam as much as possible, and I'm sure pictures will not be a problem (they might get out of control)! Here is a
bit of picture overload documenting Liam's first few days of life :)
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Minutes after he was born |
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Looking up at Daddy :) |
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Milk mouth |
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Milk drunk |